Friday, November 30, 2007

life is fair...

AS I NOTICE MANY PEOPLE THINK THAT LIFE IS UNFAIR BUT THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT UNFAIR IS BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH... SELFISH BECAUSE IF THEIR DESIRES OR WISHES WILL COME TRUE THEY SET A SIDE THE FEELINGS OF THE PEOPLE BECAUSE THEIR HAPPY THAT THEY HAVE ALL THE THINGS THAT THEY WANT... LIFE IS FAIR EVEN THOUGHT WE DON'T NOTICE IT CAUSE WE DO NOT HAVE THAT WIDE MIND SO JUST LIVE LIFE CAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

laughing as a defense mechanism

AS I NOTICE PEOPLE ALWAYS LAUGH EVEN THOUGHT THEY HAVE EXPERIENCING LONELINESS... MAYBE BECAUSE LAUGHING IS THEIR DEFENSE MECHANISM AGAINST LONELINESS OR IN FACING THEIR PROBLEMS... BUT LAUGHING DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU ALREADY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM LIKE WHAT I SAY IT'S JUST A DEFENSE MECHANISM WHEREIN SOMETIMES THERE IS A BAD EFFECT, AND THAT EFFECT IS DENIAL... YOUR MAKING LIE TO YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU DON'T ADMIT THAT YOU CAN'T SOLVE OR FORGET THAT PROBLEM... SO WE SHOULD ACCEPT THINGS CAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...

Friday, November 23, 2007

being insensitive in a positive reason

AS I NOTICE BEING INSENSITIVE IS SO STUPID BECAUSE YOU CAN'T FEEL WHETHER YOUR HURTING THAT PERSON OR THE PERSON IS JUST ON THE GO TO RIDE YOU!!! BUT SOMETIMES WE BECOME INSENSITIVE BECAUSE OF A PROBLEM, WE CAN'T THINK PROPERLY ITS LIKE OUR MIND WAS NOT YET SET... WE CAN'T ALSO BLAME OURSELF FOR BEING INSENSITIVE JUST BECAUSE WE HURT THAT PERSON, ITS NOT OUR FAULT TO HURT THEM BECAUSE IT IS NOT AN INTENTION... BUT WE CANT' ALSO BLAME PEOPLE FOR THEIR REACTION ON OUR INSENSITIVITY BECAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

insecurity...

AS I NOTICE WE ARE ALL INSECURE... INSECURE TO THE PEOPLE'S PHYSICAL APPEARANCE OR WHAT WE CALL PHYSICAL INSECURITY; WE SOMETIMES ASK GOD "WHY I HAVE THIS KIND OF APPEARANCE?" THAT QUESTION IS ALWAYS A QUESTION TO GOD AND OUR REASON IS "BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS MAKE FUN AT ME!" BUT BEFORE SAYING THAT DID WE THINK IF THAT APPEARANCE IS ONE OF THE FOUNDATION OF BEING A TRUE INDIVIDUAL... THE OTHER INSECURITY IS THE EMOTIONAL APPEARANCE... THIS IS THE DIFFICULT INSECURITY BECAUSE IT'S BETWEEN US, OUR FAMILY, OUR FRIENDS, AND THE PEOPLE AROUND US... IT IS DIFFICULT BECAUSE IT'S SOMETHING TO DO WITH OUR CONNECTION, OUR HOPE THAT SOMEDAY WILL FULFILLED, FOR EXAMPLE YOUR SCHOOL WILL BE HAVING A FAMILY DAY BUT YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY FAMILY TO ACCOMPANY YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE BUSY WORKING SO YOU WILL NOT COME AND YOU WILL JUST KEEP THE EMOTION WITHIN YOU OR IN DENIAL... SO INSECURITY IS ONE THE REASON WHY PEOPLE OR PARTICULARLY TEENAGERS GO ON A WRONG WAY CAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...

Sunday, November 4, 2007

positive outlook...

AS I NOTICE HAVING A POSITIVE OUTLOOK IN LIFE MAKES US GROW AND GLOW... GROW BECAUSE WE KNOW THE THINGS THAT WE MUST DO AS WE CREATE OR PLAN A DECISION IN LIFE SO MEANING THERE IS A MATURITY... GLOW BECAUSE IF OUR DECISION WAS SUCCESSFULLY ACCOMPLISHED THERE WILL BE A HAPPINESS OR GLOW NOT ONLY WITH US BUT ALSO WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU CAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...

big reward...

AS I NOTICE PEOPLE CHANGE NOT BECAUSE OF A PERSON BUT PEOPLE CHANGE BECAUSE OF A PERSON'S REACTION OR IN A LIFE SITUATION... IN EVERY CHANGES (INSIDE OR OUTSIDE) THERE IS AN EQUIVALENT REWARD BECAUSE AS WE TRANSFORM IN A NEW PERSON WE OMIT OUR NEGATIVE VALUES AND OMITTING NEGATIVE VALUES IS THE BIG REWARD OF OUR LIFE CAUSE ThAt'S LiFe...